tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6472256201004817012.post3097505703284699436..comments2009-06-24T20:36:33.519-05:00Comments on Sifting Through the Puzzle Pieces: Ballet sneakersJust Another Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16912350878415644022noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6472256201004817012.post-35735208188228753812009-02-14T09:40:00.000-06:002009-02-14T09:40:00.000-06:00HI, I guess your father is very closed to his feel...HI, I guess your father is very closed to his feelings, sort of like mine, and I guess he feels nobody understands him, and that's why he gets mad, because he is the only one that knows how he feels, but he sort of expects for it to be obvious, to only realize that nobody even knew, and I guess you're very stoburn in the communication area, too. You, if you feel like it, should try to explain the things you feel to, try to make the situation clearer, because you probably just throw the information to the table, giving it no real though as to why you gave it, why do you want them to know? Exaplain what you feel, it's important, you'll be more vulnerable but when you get the hang of it, you'll see it's woth it. <BR/>About the "I love you" part, even if you don't feel it at the time, or you fell it and don't think it's the right time to say it, you should say it, the more you say it, the more you will get used to it, and it wont feel so awckward after a while. I say this from personal expirience. The more you open up and try to trust him, you'll see his reactions will change, and you will be happier, I guaranty it.<BR/>I don't think your father is desapointed in you, I think his more disapointed in himself, he feels like a faillure, tha's my guess, and he doesn't know what to do, or how to fix it, so what you see is his frustration towards himself, not you, even though it looks that way.<BR/><BR/>Well I hope you stop and think about what I've writen, and you can try to some of the stuff I told you about, because I'm sure they will help you!<BR/><BR/>Bye, take care!Startswithanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10114140474653774171noreply@blogger.com